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Teaching kids to garden


I started gardening when my son was 2. He would spend time with me and get to pick the tomatoes that he saw we planted 3 months earlier. Now at 8 he jumps at the chance to go hang out with dad and look at all the food that we grow.

Here is what I have learned about teaching my son about gardening:

1. Focus on why you are growing your garden. Food? Scenery?
2. Ownership – give them a piece of the garden they are responsible for.
3. Reward – when it comes time to pick your fruits and vegetables prepare them in the tastiest way possible.
4. Fun – don’t give your child the jobs you don’t want to do. Weeding sucks. Good leaders never ask someone to do something they are not willing to do. If your child sees you pulling weeds, they will emulate what you do and know that it’s just a part of gardening that has to be done.
5. Love – I know this lesson sounds sappy but I grow my garden to make sure I feed my family the best food possible. My son instinctively knows that the food we grow tastes better than the store bought veggies. He understands that they are healthier and safer because we know what is used to grow our vegetables. He also knows that it is time we spend together that we both enjoy.

Start small with some easy to grow vegetables like radishes, beans or carrots.

Build the habit of doing a daily ritual of watering and pointing out any new growth.

Most of all share the time together and discover the satisfaction of growing your own food.

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Getting kids to help out

I learned a few things during our last group camping trip about getting kids to help out with chores.

The kids as usual took off to go play while the Dads set up their respective campsites. Everyone tried to get their kid to help set up. Most the time the kids would hangout for awhile, then lose interest.

Being the curious person that I am I wanted to know why it was so difficult for some dads to get their kids to help out. A sample of those conversations usually went:

Dad: can you stop playing around and help out!

Kid: Ok (then stands around looking for something to do)

Dad: Stop playing with the tent poles you’ll break them.

Kid: (looking puzzled loses interest goes off and finds something to do)

I saw this play out at every other campsite including my own.

I decided to change tactics. I broke down each large task and explained why I was doing them. I had my son tackle one small task at a time giving him positive feedback when each was completed.

An example of how I broke things down:

Instead of “help me set up the tent!” I said, “lets work as a team. I need you to spread out this ground cover so the bottom of our tent can stay dry.”

As the ground cover blew away I told him to find some big rocks to hold the corners down.

Then I put him in charge of putting the tent stakes in the places he thought they needed to go.

Lastly, I had him CAREFULLY put the tent poles together while I spread out the tent.

Before long we were all set up and as a reward I told him to go explore a bit while I got lunch ready.


The lesson I learned:

Often times we take for granted that people understand how to do a task when in reality they need help breaking down the tasks into smaller chunks so they can learn how to do something. For children, we have to make this as simple and positive as possible. I forget which ever movie I got it from but I often ask people to “explain it to me as if I were a 5 year old”

When I ask my son to help out, I try to be specific about each task until he learns each step and can do things independently. Checklists help until things become routine. Eventually, your kid learns to execute complex tasks and do them independently.

Try this yourself and share your results.

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Backpacking with kids

A few of you may have an aversion to camping. More than likely it was caused by the idea that camping has to be uncomfortable, unpleasant and boring.

If you put yourself in your child’s shoes camping means no video games, tv or Internet. Depending on the age of your child these might be deal breakers.

My son and I have been on several camping trips. Most of them car camping where we could bring our toys and comfort items with us.

Out last trip was his first introduction into backpacking. I saw this as my chance to show him how much fun this type of camping can be. At the time of this writing, he is 8 years old. At this age, he still wants to be like daddy, so I got him his own pack and made sure we had some comfort items and food that he liked. It added about 15lbs to my pack but it pretty much made the trip for him.


Before the trip I asked him to make a list of the things he wanted to do. Here was his list:

1. Fishing
2. Fishing
3. Fishing
4. Hiking
5. Hot chocolate party
6. S’mores

Did I forget to mention he likes fishing?

I made sure to bring my backpacking fishing rod, s’mores stuff and enough instant hot chocolate to give a Boy Scout troop diabetes. I also brought his favorite food…bacon. Its my secret weapon on my backpacking trips, yoders canned bacon.


I always made sure he had something to look forward to while we were camping and gave him space to explore. We even caught a fish and ate it which made his trip.


As he gets older, he will be responsible for his pack and comfort items that he decides to bring but it think this first trip planted the seeds for future great backpacking trips with my son.

– JD

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